ON THE PATH TO ALL-ROUND IMPROVEMENT
2024 August Update: I have been going through the DVD set again and summarising it so have a look below to the live sessions as I update them in due course. Note: Around 2005-2007 I was getting out of a bad place. David Deangelo and Dr. Paul Dobransky taught me something deeper than this. One … Read more
Brainy doseChoose the right approach.Eye contact, hold gaze.Smile.Keep your temper.Don’t react, respond.Consider their point of view.Approach the problem head-on.Be objective. Try to find common ground. (See Negotiation and Conflict Resolution by Open2Study)Be mature – kill with kindness.Be witty and use humour.Simply say ‘you’re right’.Don’t try force change.Finish convo.Walk away. QuotesI do not allow people to … Read more
Back to Dr. Paul reflecting on what Rickard aka Billy talked about. – Observing ego helps you make your change. Your anxiety is what makes you do impulsive things e.g. addictions.– Doing the right thing will fill your courage tank. Doing the wrong thing will make it worse until you ‘decide’ to do the right … Read more
Politics Boundary– There are so many definitions of politics and The Prince is a good recommendation to deal with politics e.g. if you have dirty work to do, you hire a henchman to do the work so if anything goes off you are not to blame. (Paras note: Again see my in-depth summary on it … Read more
High Ethic/High Character– Fixing part of your psychology to be your best and do your best. Be well experienced and able to master anger and anxiety. Now he mixes the spectra mentioned in the previous DVDs and creates an X-Y graph. E.g. Intuition on top, Conscience bottom, Education left, Experience right. This way you can … Read more
Model Problems – 3 Parts– Biology: Medicine can fix this.– Psychology: Education/Therapy can fix this.– Stress outside your Boundary: Making a DECISION about the stress will fix this. Think about the serenity prayer. So stress can affect psychology and in turn, the biology. (Paras note: Similar to Ayurveda). – A boundary with doors NOT holes … Read more
