How to Get and Keep a Man … Before you Hit ‘The Wall’

SHOCKING! Former Feminists Ticking Biological Clock Causes Major Panic!

Summary:
– Educated independent woman having issues finding someone and worried she’ll not find someone.

– She dated someone casually from the Middle East knowing there would not be any future.

– Relationships didn’t work because they weren’t smart enough. And if they were smart they were too poor… or overseas.

– She’s studying for a PhD and would want someone with the same income. She’s being very picky.

– Her education got paid for by the patriarchy lol.

– So she was asked why would she be chosen. What is her market value if she’s being so fussy. (Observation: Looks like lots of 8’s think they deserve 10’s).

– So she’s 32, she wants to finish her education and find someone and have kids. So she’d have to finish studying around 34. Then find a man 35, have kids 36, and then get back to working because millions were spent on her PhD.

– So she wants someone smarter, taller, richer. Which comes down to 1 to 2% of men she’s already come across. And those men might not want her. So 1 man in a 1000. How do you first find 1 in a 1000 and then how do you bag him?

– She hasn’t thought much of what a man would want in a wife and mother of his children.

– She’s projected what she wants on her men. So she said all the things she thought a man would want and her going for the PhD is definitely not it. And her parents have not given her any advice or talked about it. They’d rather talk to her about the cat.

– So she had to lower her standards. Something men do all the time. Men all want the hottest one but they can’t get her. So they lower their standards.

– Her sexual value is dropping by the years after 30 while men’s value goes up with
age.

– In general 7’s go with 7’s. She’s looking for men who will have better standards than she has to give and it’s dropping by the years.

The number of sexual partners a woman has is directly proportional to her divorcing

– Not only is her fertility in decline but also she’s had a lot of relationships and to make it worse is that she has too high standards. She’s a high risk for divorce.

– If she’s 5’6 and she wears 2 inch hills she needs a guy taller than 5’8.

– She says she’s ok with going for divorced guys but that means she’s going to get someone with baggage. His wife was insane, he was financially raped (look up divorce rape). He’s got kids with someone else. Is this what she really wants.

– Stefan asked his partner what her standards were so he knows where he matches up.

– She says she could do with not super pretty and he schools her on how that sounds.

– If she doesn’t change her ideas she’s going to regret it or not get anywhere close to what she wants.

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Your Job Is To Get Married And Have Children

Summary
– Woman has been spending in the wrong places/courses and in debt now.

– After a lot of issues she brings up Stefan tells her to make it her number one job to get married.

– Christian men are the number one to go for. There is no excuse to not be able to find a man.

Be so great that he has not option

– She keeps beating around the bush. Oh we need to have a career, what if he’s not the one etc.

– Yes, But what if my kids turn out…. No! Be so great!

– Yes, But what if… NO! You will know you will be a great parent then you will. You have control.

– The yes, but personality needs to believe they’re not like a rock rolling down the hill. The rock can’t stop itself. You have control to stop yourself.

– He does her eggs a favour and paints a picture for her. She’s 28 so her values is going to start dropping. At some point she’s going to his ‘the wall’. She’s going to see other people with babies. She’s going to want that and her body clock will be screaming at her for it too. She’ll want to be happy for them but she’ll be bleeding inside. They will have a full table with love while she’ll have a ‘career’.

BE SO GREAT HE CAN’T SAY NO

– Yes, but don’t guys like someone with … be so great! Yes, but I feel… be so great! How attractive is this yes, but personality is?

– The dumbass still yes, buts about how she wants to go for her career.

BE SO FANTASTIC HE CAN’T SAY NO

– She can’t go for the career after she gets the kids out before her ‘window’.

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Bonus – Jordan Peterson: Career Women Hitting the Wall

Summary:
Women were so powerful and reached the top in whatever they were doing and where did they get to? They got to working all the time… ALL THE TIME! In Uni you say you studied for 6 hours but you really studied for half an hour and looked at facebook, youtube, ate, etc. These successful people work 80 hours a week. They’re mostly insane men! When you have enough money to stave off misery, extra money doesn’t help you. Why bother with it? The women in law firms thing it’s a good thing and their partners are making the same amount so how much more do they need. The men are competitive with their colleagues. Real brass knuckles competition. Instead of asking why women are not in these positions we have to ask why men are so insane to be in these positions. Look at Apple vs. Samsung constantly in law battles. It’s so much work, it’s no picnic. If you’re half crazy and you have a lot of money you’ll be crazy a lot faster. So the women at 30 look around and ask what the hell they’re doing it for. Marriage and family are of primary importance. If the women don’t have kids and family by a certain age they end up bitter and unhappy unless you’re a 1 in a 1000 who thrive in these situations. It’s a rigged game.

Dr. David Buss – Going for guys too high in mate value. An 8 seeking 10s and being lusted after by 6s.

Know Your SEXUAL MARKET VALUE [Study Reveals Women’s Mating Schedule]

Summary:
– Dating study stats in the SMP (Sexual market place).

– Women’s desirability starts dropping from the age of 20. Men’s desirability continues to rise after age of 20.

– Hypergamy: act or practice of a woman marrying a man of higher caste or social status than themselves.

– Women’s prospects dim as they reach the highest level of education while more educated men are way more desirable.

– Men did not find success when they sent happy messages. Successful men tend to send less positive messages. Women are not attracted to happy go lucky, positive men. Bad boys.

– Highly recommends a book series called The Rational Male. Some bits from the book … hypergamy is in human nature. Ages 15 to 20 women are more attracted to physicality. 20 to 25 in the party years. By 23 she’s reached her sexual market value. In these prime ages they’re into ‘alpha fucks’. Moving to their 30s they start looking for ‘beta fucks’. They start realising they don’t have a provider. Anxiety kicks in and the hot guy is not a priority anymore. Late 30s to 40s there is a re-interest in alpha fucking. So the best is to be both in one or the best you can be of both alpha and beta in one.

Click to listen to the man himself – The Rational Male – Hypergamy: Micro to Macro – Rollo Tomassi

Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage